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Meet Coach Iris Arenson-Fuller, CPC, ACC, Your Change Champion & Stop Suffering Sorceress

Welcome! As a Life and Loss Transformation Coach, I help people with Life Stage, Family and Relationship Changes. I also help the Adoption Community with adoption loss, and all other adoption-related issues.

Are you struggling through loss and grief? Are you a widow, a widower, or dealing with any other type of loss? Are you living through a really tough life change, or do you want to make a change? Would you like to find the self that has been lost over the years? Do you want to find your true purpose, as you enter a new life stage? Perhaps you hope to find, or to improve a relationship?

I want to challenge you to put down that big box of pain, fear and dissatisfaction that you’re been carrying around. I will help you navigate the rough waters and come out better than before, regardless of how painful and disappointing things have been.

Find your new normal. Start building a future full of sparkling hope, peace and new direction. Let me help you to stop suffering, and to start succeeding at whatever it is you dream about.

I have been through life’s wringer, but have come out of it with new energy, strengths and commitment. I can help you do that too. I know a lot about grief, about being a caregiver, and about being in the Sandwich Generation also. My work with families, singles and couples for so many decades has taught me a great deal about people, their relationships and their trials.

How would it feel if you were easily able to greet the unexpected with curiosity and excitement, rather than with fear or sadness?

Let's talk about how I can help you. I can help you plan and build your new life as you work through your life changes, or as you travel through your personal grief journey.

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Helping You Go From Life Stinks to Life Shines

What is your Life Stage or Life Season?

Reshape your life with my help through Personal Life Coaching

Widow / Widower

Survivor of Another Kind of Devastating Loss or Trauma?

Sandwich Generation Stress? Baby Boomer?

Lost a Dream? Need a New Dream?

Help with Adoption Issues or Loss?

Unsure of Next Step?

Empty Nest? Life Reinvention
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She pushed me to use my own talents and creativity

I began working with Iris when I was struggling through new widowhood and feeling life would never be ok for...

Diane Karasik Rubin, Jackson, NJ

2015-08-24T08:55:02+00:00

Diane Karasik Rubin, Jackson, NJ

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I began working with Iris when I was struggling through new widowhood and feeling life would never be ok for me again. I worked with Iris for over 6 months. She helped me not only with my grief and with the insecurities I felt as a widow, but helped me to look at my past in relation to why I make the choices I often make. Then we found new ways of doing things that would work better for me. Iris worked with me on recognizing my inner strengths and building confidence in my own abilities.. She pushed me to use my own talents and creativity. As my circumstances and goals changed over time, Iris assisted me in shifting gears and focusing on my new challenges. I have now worked with her over a few years, around a number of new challenges. Although I’ve had a lot of physical challenges that have been hard, I’m doing so much better now. It will take time, but I’m determined. When you talk to me, Iris, you remind me of all the things you’ve already taught me about myself. Thank you for always taking the time to bring me back to the present and beyond. I would suggest your contacting Iris and hiring her as soon as possible.
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I have been dissatisfied with my life and career

I have been dissatisfied with my life and career for a long while. I figured there was little I could...

Alexis

2015-07-28T08:12:53+00:00

Alexis

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I have been dissatisfied with my life and career for a long while. I figured there was little I could do about it, since I was fast approaching retirement age. I began to panic about the next phase of life. I realized how few supports and how little social life I had because I had expended all of my energy climbing the corporate ladder. I divorced about ten years ago and did not bother to build a new social life. My only child, a grown daughter, lives in another part of the country. Iris has really pushed me and challenged me to remember who I used to be-- what my passions and interests were. We are working on setting new goals together and I have a new enthusiasm for living. I almost don't recognize myself. I am beginning to look forward to whatever comes next and to view it all as an adventure. I know I have a way to go before I am certain but I have my old joie de vivre back thanks to Iris." Iris is always warm and supportive, though she knows how to be tough when someone needs it! She has been through a lot in her own life and it truly helps her to understand many different experiences and perspectives.
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Iris supported me and met my expectations completely

Iris supported me and met my expectations completely. She helped me wrap my head around some very difficult decisions. Iris...

Dena

2015-07-28T08:11:25+00:00

Dena

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Iris supported me and met my expectations completely. She helped me wrap my head around some very difficult decisions. Iris is very patient and a wonderful listener. She asked me questions so that I could formulate my thoughts better than on my own. Iris had me create a visualization that I can use and reuse to manage my stress. This was particularly helpful.
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Finely Crafted Feedback and Reflection…

Iris's approach to the subtleties and complications of human potential and supportive problem-solving is personal and warm. She is an...

Bob Vance, Social Worker, Consultant, Professional Coach

2015-07-28T07:59:52+00:00

Bob Vance, Social Worker, Consultant, Professional Coach

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Iris's approach to the subtleties and complications of human potential and supportive problem-solving is personal and warm. She is an adept listener and gives finely crafted feedback and reflection.
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Top Qualities for Iris: Good Value, High Integrity, Creative

If I could, I would select all available qualities on a check list to apply to Iris, for her skills...

Deah Curry, PhD, CPC

2015-07-28T08:01:41+00:00

Deah Curry, PhD, CPC

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If I could, I would select all available qualities on a check list to apply to Iris, for her skills in coaching are among the best in the profession in my experience. I'd also add that Iris is thoughtful and encouraging as an empowering sounding board who listens deeply and asks the questions that really move a self-aware client into action-hallmarks of a great coach. In working with her several times over a couple of years, I gained crucial insight on nagging problems, with a clear way forward on very hard decisions..And some of the anticipatory grief about a loss I was resisting was much relieved. I highly recommend Iris Arenson-Fuller as the coach to hire when you need work through a difficult transition. You couldn't be in better, more expert hands to help you uncover new possibilities, design your best options, and be nurtured by an encouraging belief in your ability to make the big changes you need for the second chances you want.

The Federal Trade Commission requires website owners who display testimonials to say that each person's experiences and results are unique to them. What you will achieve from coaching entirely depends on your goals, your openness with Coach Iris, and the degree of effort you contribute to the coaching process.

Due to the individual nature of your motivation, skills, and willingness to engage in new ways of thinking, Coach Iris can make no guarantees about your personal outcome.

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